Most of problems can be solve if people try following steps:

Most of problems can be solve if people try following steps:

– [x] Don’t try to be oversmart.
– [x] Don’t try to prove themseves on social sites or in front of useless people.
– [x] Don’t invest more than 10 mins time on social sites of 24 hrs of a day.
– [x] Try to create a proper defined plans and work on those plans minimum 90 days without any amendment.
– [x] Try to represent themselves as simple as possible for the people.
– [x] Start questioning to themselves and researching-finding the best answers of those questions they can.

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My CSE preparation 365 days-@karm

Jai Hind Friends,

By this article I’m sharing my CSE (Civil Services Examination) Prep. journey (26 dec 2021 – 26 dec 2022).

So let’s start

About myself & my education qualification

Myself Karm, Just a year ago I’ve completed my “Masters in Botany” from U.P. Autonomous College Varanasi Uttar-Pradesh. I belong to Pratapgarh district in Uttar-Pradesh. I’ve worked as co-founder of PET Botany (An online e-learning platform for P.G. Botany entrance exam preparation) for two years (2021-2022). My basic education has done from my district’s schools & colleges (Class I-XII) to U.P. Board. Later I came here in Varanasi from my higher education (U.G. & P.G.).

When & How I’ve chosen UPSC IAS/IFS for my career?

I think it was year 2018 when I was preparing for Universities Entrance Exam most likely for Banaras Hindu University PET Botany during those time a friend just discussed about myself and told me “Your thought process really nice you should be think about UPSC, I think you can become an IAS” really that moment I’ve no thoughts about UPSC so I respond let will think after entrance exam. Unfortunately, w.r.t. my personal familiar issues I couldn’t prepared for entrance exam so I missed BHU that was my dream but I’ve gotten U.P. Autonomous College Varanasi Uttar-Pradesh for Masters in Botany so I’ve taken admission and again started my academic journey. “U.P. Autonomous College is one of the best college in Uttar-Pradesh for Undergraduate & Postgraduate courses”  This is my statement with two years experiences; Faculty supports, Teachers/Professors, Library, Educating methods, Practical experiments etc are well defined & pro-active. Every teachers are good enough there (in UPC) and My favourite teacher/professor was Dr. Ajai Kumar Singh who has taught me Plant Resources & Utilization. During 3rd & 4rth semester our most of teachers/professors were inspiring us for future career because I think most of students have not clear what will they do after Masters then I well thought about my career, really I don’t want go in research field (CSIR/PhD). Initially I started preparing CSE as Indian Forest Services (IFoS) preparation but soon I realized that I need to attempt for IAS, IFS, IFoS & UPPSC, UPPSC ACF & RFO etc

My thoughts about UPSC exams/jobs

UPSC exams are very best way of discovering/creating/knowing yourself & this world. If you inspire to learn more, create more & share more then I think you deserve to be a civil servant. UPSC jobs provide us taking responsibilities of societies that is most respectable honour for any person.

My CSE Prep. journey 26 dec 2021 to 26 dec 2022

26 dec. 2021 is the day when I officially decided to prepare CSE sincerely.  Till the day my journey is very exciting; daily, weekly & monthly I set tasks (written) and for completing those tasks I putted my 100% efforts but some day when I couldn’t put my 100% I have not been sad or doubts on me because I’m a human not machine so sometimes 50-60% efforts also countable, we need to accept it. After dec 2021 to July 2022 I’ve taken time for clearing all kinds of doubts because after 5-6 months’ time investing we can analysis better every kinds of our doubts so I invested around 30-35k in books & monthly magazines. Those things I can’t control I don’t care about that like I can’t go Delhi for Prelims & Mains prep. so I don’t care about it but for Live class, Test Series, Books, Magazines etc  I can afford so I’ve these things or will continue purchasing these things. I take learnings from few good qualities IAS Officers like Anudeep Dirushetty, Manuj Jindal, Kanishak Kataria, Akshat Jain, Arpit Gupta etc

Point to be noted that I just take learnings, it doesn’t means I follow them personally (whatever! sincere guys can get my point). As I’m very passionate learner I never get bored in preparing because I know each & every second that we invest in worrying is waste of time & energy so you can understand what kind of Person I’m! Now I’m Pro-Version of myself & belong to 2% club of people. I don’t repeat mistakes as well as don’t get involve any types of dramas (lafde). I’m ready to break my own records daily. My competition with myself because I’m working on a deep meaningful goal. I’m going to do what is right for me in my beliefs & actions. My thought process & action inspire me to do more, live more, create more, share more.

Yes now I’m unstoppable Karm.

Let’s know meaning of KARM

K = Knowledge

A = Awesome

R = Ready (Prepared)

M = Marvellous (Marasli)

Few tips from my side to beginners:

Ask to yourself these few questions & write down well defined answers of these questions:

Q. Who are you and What’s your purpose of life?

Q. Why are you selecting UPSC IAS/IFS etc?

Q. What are UPSC Exams & What are mandatory demands of UPSC for become a Civil Servant?

Q. How you’ll prepare for all three stages of UPSC Exams?

Q. Can you put 8-10hrs daily basis in preparation and can analysis your preparation daily>weekly>monthly?

Q. Can you learn about applied knowledge of Biology > Psychology > Philosophy > Economics?

Q. Have you courage to face all obstacles that will come in your UPSC journey?

Q. Will you enjoy process rather than results?

Then, here is UPSC CSE preparation formula

Syllabus > PYQs > DFS > Q.P./A.W. > R-1D > R-2W > R-3M > M.T. = Prepared

Abbreviations:

PYQs = Previous years question papers

DFS = Deep Focus Study

Q.P. = Questions Practice

A.W. = Answer Writing

R-1D = Revision 1st Daily

R-2W = Revision 2nd Weekly

R-3M = Revision 3rd Monthly

M.T. = Mock Tests


My life’s learnings through quotes:

[x] Develop a passion for learning, if you do you will never cease to grow.

[x] It’s fine to celebrate success but It’s more important heed the lessons of failures.

[x] Organise your thoughts, materials, notes, content etc so you can revise smoothly. Remember that without revision learning is incomplete.

[x] Don’t judge people but observe their thought process + habits.

[x] 95% time invest in youself (mandatory), rest 5% time invest in others (optional).

[x] Honesty is the best policy.

[x] Financial independence is very vital in our life. When you financially independent, you have the ability to live your life on your own terms.

[x] For stability must be save a-z backup plans (for short term) so your long term process can’t be disturbed.

[x] Impressing others is an illusion. Stop seeking to be liked. Instead, focus all of energy on a higher mission.


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@karmksanju

                  

Karm’s talks

Karm’s talks

| Sunday | 17:41 IST | Varanasi |

Hello,
Friends…

Sorry to say but I’m not anyone ‘s best friend/close friend but I’m a good friend of many nice & amazing people. Best friend definition in my knowledge & sense is that being in a relationship with someone who can stand for you in your worst conditions, who believe in you for your thoughts & activities, who can spend time with you without any deadline, who can share anything without return expectations, who help you w.r.t. responsibility not sympathy. So conclusion is that I have a long term vision. My work is my love, my thoughts process & strong developed habits are my best friends. Just because our time is limited, I want to put my time in meaningful activities, relationships, and most importantly in learning more & more. I won’t predict anything historic but at the same time I believe that if I work with pure intention & love then nothing is impossible. I want to go on a world tour, I want to go anywhere but I’m sure about one thing, I’m not going to stop myself from learning more, to do more, to appreciate more 👍

I think the mind really controls everything…by learning Biology > Psychology > Philosophy > Economics; I’m becoming so open minded and free thinker. I believe in God (Universe Creature) but I’m not saying I’m highly religious at the same time I have respect for indian cultures.

I want to test my maximum and see how much I can do and I want to change the bad world to a good world as much as possible. I would like to be remembered as someone who did the best he could with the talent he had.

Humble request: Respect my thoughts & privacy 🔐 If I’m not talking to many it doesn’t mean I’m hating to them I’m just focused on my life. think anything no problems but don’t talk to me like you are my boss. I’m a leader & a leader knows how to go ahead & solve the problems. Wish for me good or bad but don’t take me so personally. Be kind, be humble, think Good, do good & appreciate more. 👍😊

@karmksanju✒️


Hindi Translation:

कर्म की बातें

| रविवार | 17:41 IST | वाराणसी |

नमस्ते,
दोस्तों…

कहने के लिए खेद है, लेकिन मैं किसी का सबसे अच्छा दोस्त/करीबी दोस्त नहीं हूं, लेकिन मैं कई अच्छे और अद्भुत लोगों का अच्छा दोस्त हूं। मेरे ज्ञान और समझ में सबसे अच्छे दोस्त की परिभाषा यह है कि किसी ऐसे व्यक्ति के साथ रिश्ते में होना जो आपकी सबसे खराब परिस्थितियों में आपके लिए खड़ा हो सकता है, जो आपके विचारों और गतिविधियों के लिए आप पर विश्वास करता है, जो बिना किसी समय सीमा के आपके साथ समय बिता सकता है, जो कुछ भी साझा कर सकता है वापसी की उम्मीदों के बिना, जो आपकी मदद w.r.t. सहानुभूति नहीं जिम्मेदारी तो निष्कर्ष यह है कि मेरे पास दीर्घकालिक दृष्टि है। मेरा काम ही मेरा प्यार है, मेरी विचार प्रक्रिया और मजबूत विकसित आदतें मेरे सबसे अच्छे दोस्त हैं। सिर्फ इसलिए कि हमारा समय सीमित है, मैं अपना समय सार्थक गतिविधियों, रिश्तों और सबसे महत्वपूर्ण रूप से अधिक से अधिक सीखने में लगाना चाहता हूं। मैं कोई भी ऐतिहासिक भविष्यवाणी नहीं करूंगा लेकिन साथ ही मेरा मानना ​​है कि अगर मैं नेक इरादे और प्यार से काम करता हूं तो कुछ भी असंभव नहीं है। मैं एक विश्व भ्रमण पर जाना चाहता हूं, मैं कहीं भी जाना चाहता हूं लेकिन मुझे एक बात का यकीन है, मैं खुद को और अधिक सीखने, और अधिक करने, और अधिक सराहना करने से नहीं रोकूंगा 👍

मुझे लगता है कि मन वास्तव में सब कुछ नियंत्रित करता है… जीव विज्ञान > मनोविज्ञान > फिलॉस्फी > अर्थशास्त्र सीखकर; मैं इतना खुले विचारों वाला और स्वतंत्र विचारक होता जा रहा हूं। मैं भगवान (ब्रह्मांड प्राणी) में विश्वास करता हूं, लेकिन मैं यह नहीं कह रहा हूं कि मैं अत्यधिक धार्मिक हूं, साथ ही भारतीय संस्कृतियों के लिए मेरे मन में सम्मान है।

मैं अपना अधिकतम परीक्षण करना चाहता हूं और देखना चाहता हूं कि मैं कितना कर सकता हूं और मैं जितना संभव हो सके बुरी दुनिया को अच्छी दुनिया में बदलना चाहता हूं। मैं किसी ऐसे व्यक्ति के रूप में याद किया जाना चाहूंगा जिसने अपनी प्रतिभा के साथ सर्वश्रेष्ठ प्रदर्शन किया।

विनम्र अनुरोध: मेरे विचारों और गोपनीयता का सम्मान करें 🔐 अगर मैं बहुतों से बात नहीं कर रहा हूं तो इसका मतलब यह नहीं है कि मैं उनसे नफरत कर रहा हूं मैं सिर्फ अपने जीवन पर ध्यान केंद्रित कर रहा हूं। कुछ भी सोचो कोई समस्या नहीं है लेकिन मुझसे ऐसे बात मत करो जैसे तुम मेरे बॉस हो। मैं एक नेता हूं और एक नेता जानता है कि कैसे आगे बढ़ना है और समस्याओं को हल करना है। मेरे लिए अच्छे या बुरे की कामना करो लेकिन मुझे व्यक्तिगत रूप से मत लो। दयालु बनो, विनम्र बनो, अच्छा सोचो, अच्छा करो और अधिक सराहना करो। 👍😊

@karmksanju✒️


Relationships & Friendships are important for humans?

Relationships & Friendships are important for humans?

6:45 PM | Varanasi | Saturday

A year ago, I was not good enough in friendships or relationships. By the knowledge of Psychology I’ve experienced “every person expects good friendships or relationships but everyone doesn’t want to take responsibility for friendships and relationships.”

Personally, I don’t involve such type of friendship or relationship that depends on outer look, familiar background, money etc.

I want a relationship which depends on similar thought processes & activities. I experienced that never involve money as catalyst in any relationships. if you can help then do with responsibility otherwise don’t do dramas or hurt somebody w.r.t. money. Relationships are most precious if we expect zero (nothing) to other.

Anybody can be good enough means He/She can learn Biology+Psychology+Philosophy+
Economy then in any kind of relationships, no place for unnecessary dramas or expectations. Every person is unique. A good friend is someone who can support his friend by heart ❤️ as I know that each & every decision which we make for people by our heart are great decisions for lifetime.

I’ll say If you can’t stand with the responsibilities then this will be a good decision that you respectfully say sorry for that relationship. Hurting your friend is the worst bad thing that perhaps you can do….. so say NO to that relationships or friendships that run on sympathy, expectations etc

Conclusion: Having a good friend means being in a relationship that nourishes with love, care, unconditional support etc because the present situation is temporary but memories are permanent so try to create good memories for your relationship. Accept your mistakes, communicate clearly then you will understand the value of your relationship/friendship otherwise you will get depressed due to arguments, unnecessary dramas, failures etc

Last line remember that: Only you are your best friend because no one can know you more than you as well no one can perform on your expectations well more than you. Others, can be good friends only.

                                                                                                                                      Karm K. Sanju


Hindi Translation:

क्या इंसान के लिए रिश्ते और दोस्ती जरूरी है?

एक साल पहले, मैं दोस्ती या रिश्तों में काफी अच्छा नहीं था। मनोविज्ञान के ज्ञान से मैंने अनुभव किया है “हर व्यक्ति अच्छी दोस्ती या रिश्तों की उम्मीद करता है लेकिन हर कोई दोस्ती और रिश्तों की जिम्मेदारी नहीं लेना चाहता। ” निजी तौर पर, मैं इस तरह की दोस्ती या रिश्ते को शामिल नहीं करता जो बाहरी रूप पर निर्भर करता है, परिचित पृष्ठभूमि, पैसा आदि।

मैं एक ऐसा रिश्ता चाहता हूं जो समान विचार प्रक्रियाओं और गतिविधियों पर निर्भर हो। मैंने अनुभव किया कि कभी भी किसी भी रिश्ते में पैसे को उत्प्रेरक के रूप में शामिल नहीं करना चाहिए। यदि आप मदद कर सकते हैं तो जिम्मेदारी से करें अन्यथा नाटक न करें या किसी को चोट न पहुंचाएं w.r.t. पैसे।

रिश्ते सबसे अनमोल होते हैं अगर हम दूसरे से शून्य (कुछ नहीं) की उम्मीद करते हैं। कोई भी काफी अच्छा हो सकता है अर्थात वह जीव विज्ञान + मनोविज्ञान + दर्शन + सीख सकता है मितव्ययिता तो किसी भी तरह के रिश्तों में अनावश्यक ड्रामों या उम्मीदों के लिए कोई जगह नहीं है।

हर व्यक्ति अद्वितीय है। एक अच्छा दोस्त वह है जो दिल से अपने दोस्त का समर्थन कर सकता है ❤️ जैसा कि मैं जानता हूं कि हम लोगों के लिए अपने दिल से जो भी निर्णय लेते हैं, वह जीवन भर के लिए महान निर्णय होते हैं।

मैं तो यही कहूंगा कि अगर आप जिम्मेदारियों के साथ खड़े नहीं हो सकते तो यही अच्छा फैसला होगा कि आप सम्मानपूर्वक उस रिश्ते के लिए सॉरी बोलें। अपने दोस्त को चोट पहुँचाना सबसे बुरा काम है जो शायद आप कर सकते हैं….. इसलिए उन रिश्तों या दोस्ती को ना कहें जो सहानुभूति, अपेक्षाओं आदि पर चलते हैं।

निष्कर्ष: एक अच्छा दोस्त होने का मतलब एक ऐसे रिश्ते में होना है जो प्यार, देखभाल, बिना शर्त समर्थन आदि से पोषित होता है क्योंकि वर्तमान स्थिति अस्थायी है लेकिन यादें स्थायी हैं इसलिए अपने रिश्ते के लिए अच्छी यादें बनाने की कोशिश करें। अपनी गलतियों को स्वीकार करें, स्पष्ट रूप से संवाद करें तब आप अपने रिश्ते/दोस्ती के मूल्य को समझेंगे अन्यथा आप बहस, अनावश्यक ड्रामे, असफलता आदि के कारण उदास हो जाएंगे।

अंतिम पंक्ति याद रखें: केवल आप ही आपके सबसे अच्छे दोस्त हैं क्योंकि कोई भी आपको आपसे ज्यादा नहीं जान सकता है और कोई भी आपकी उम्मीदों पर आपसे ज्यादा अच्छा प्रदर्शन नहीं कर सकता है। दूसरे, अच्छे दोस्त ही हो सकते हैं।

                                                                                                                         कर्म के. संजू

Follow your dream By: Amanda Bradley

Follow your dream By: Amanda Bradley

Follow your dream.

Take one step at a time and don’t settle for less,

Just continue to climb.

Follow your dream.

If you stumble, don’t stop and lose sight of your goal

Press to the top.

For only on top can we see the whole view,

Can we see what we’ve done and what we can do;

Can we then have the vision to seek something new,

Press on.

Follow your dream.

 

By: Amanda Bradley

Who is your real friend?

Who is your real friend?

Two days ago, I asked this psychological question to many members of my contacts for the research purpose also a poll conducted by a friend Vishal Patel

Who is your real friend?

(a) One who has emotionally connected to you

(b) One who has promised, he/she will stand for you always.

(c) One who has similar kind of thought process like you.

(d) One who has money & power.

Let’s discuss the different perspectives,

Table 2/1 Here is data of my contact’s chosen answers:

            Options    Selected no. of members
            a            11
            b            4
            c            8
            d            1
          Skipped            22

Table 2/2 Here is the data of Vishal Patel’s poll :

            Options    Selected no. of members
              a           53
              b           28
              c           22
              d           3
          Skipped        No data available

Now I’m telling that there is no intention of judging the people but I wanted observation so I’ve asked this question. Yup! This is just a research nothing else.

Now let’s come to the correct answer is

(c) One who has similar kind of thought process like you.

Exp.  A real friend has similar kind of thought process.

Why ?

Option a) One who has emotionally connected with you because of emotional bonding that may be any relation in your family or anything, as well emotional bonding start with sympathy & and end with arguments or end due to lack of communication when the situation will be out of control.

I’ll explain option (b) later

First, we need to talk about options (a) & (c). A friendship that starts same the kind of thinking process of the people they will become friends by their thoughts, not by any emotional attachment. Now the question arises… What guarantees that option (c) type people’s thought processes will not change later when the situation will be out of control? Yes possible that both or anyone’s thought process can change but point is that they became friends by their same kind of thinking so they do not disturb each other by arguments and will not be angry with each other. They will try to communicate & will focus on understanding and solving the problems instead of fighting to each other while option a) kind friend will blame, will cry and more drama will create because of emotional sentiments. With emotion any relationship can’t go so long if both have not similar kind of thought processes. Option (a) type friends compromise with each other just because of emotional attachment otherwise if the thought process is not same how they can communicate well & truly can give supports to each other without sympathy ? Practically this is not possible. They (option-a) do not understand responsibility they depend on emotions.

Option (b) type friends never can be real friends! Because if we human need to live with anyone just because of promises then this is not true relationship. If we are really true friends what need of promises? Promises just bound the people.

If we want true friends then there will be freedom means friendship’s piller should be responsibilty not anything else e.g. promises, emotional attachment, sympathy etc. We just need same kind of thought process by which we can be critical thinker, supportive, responsible, optimistic etc.  I don’t think we need to discuss about option (d). I just can say those 4 people selected option (d) they are not human.

Hope you have gotten my points so clear that option #c is the correct answer.

Option c) One who has similar kind of thought process like you.

– Karm K. Sanju (Believe in your actions)

Six qualities which prove that you are a Champion (Winner) or Loser (Failure)

Six qualities which prove that you are a Champion (Winner)

  1. You have a written dream in your life.
  2. You get up to bed in the morning before 4 am and go to bed to sleep before 11 pm.
  3. You have a desire (Curiosity) to learn more & more, most important your thoughts are about improving and upgrading yourself consistently for the next version.
  4. You have 8+ hrs of working on your dream per day.
  5. You don’t give excuses.
  6. No procrastination habits.

Six worst qualities that prove that you are loser (failure)

  1. Comparing yourself to someone else.
  2. Feeling sorry for your present situation.
  3. Developing any relationship just for greed/fun/emotional attachment etc
  4. Complaining/blaming always others.
  5. No fixed time schedule for sleeping.
  6. More concerns about getting results instead of executing ideas & efforts on the processes.

Q. Why should not watch porn ?

Q. Why shoud not watch porn ?

पोर्न क्यों नहीं देखना चाहिए?

Ans: I know it’s pleasures but they’re cheap, brutal pleasures that fade fast and leave you worse off than before. Porn ultimately hurts the heart and confuses the mind. It gives nothing back. All it does is take. I played a character with a morphine addiction and in my research I came across a description of opiates as a drug that will “kiss you then betray you.” This is also true for porn.

Each person has to decide for themselves whether to have this thing in their lives or not. I value love and connection and friendship and community. I want to encourage more creativity, joy, and peace in my life. Porn is opposed to all of that. I’m not a porn addict, though I believe the addiction is real. I didn’t grow up in any kind of repressive, super religious environment. I never felt I was in moral danger or anything. I just started to notice how when I watched porn the quality of my life and mood was affected. It depleted my energy and focus. It led me to over-sexualized women in the real world. It clouded my thinking and deadened my imagination. There are a thousand good reasons for kicking porn but those were a few of mine.

– Josh Radnor

मुझे पता है कि यह सुख है लेकिन वे सस्ते, क्रूर सुख हैं जो तेजी से फीके पड़ जाते हैं और आपको पहले से भी बदतर बना देते हैं। पोर्न अंततः दिल को चोट पहुँचाता है और दिमाग को भ्रमित करता है। यह कुछ भी वापस नहीं देता है। यह सब लेता है। मैंने एक मॉर्फिन की लत के साथ एक चरित्र निभाया और अपने शोध में मुझे एक दवा के रूप में अफीम का वर्णन आया जो “आपको चूमेगी फिर आपको धोखा देगी।” यह पोर्न के लिए भी सच है। प्रत्येक व्यक्ति को अपने लिए यह तय करना होता है कि इस चीज को अपने जीवन में रखना है या नहीं। मैं प्यार और कनेक्शन और दोस्ती और समुदाय को महत्व देता हूं। मैं अपने जीवन में अधिक रचनात्मकता, आनंद और शांति को प्रोत्साहित करना चाहता हूं। पोर्न इन सबका विरोध करता है। मैं पोर्न एडिक्ट नहीं हूं, हालांकि मेरा मानना ​​है कि यह लत असली है। मैं किसी भी तरह के दमनकारी, अति धार्मिक वातावरण में पला-बढ़ा नहीं हूं। मुझे कभी नहीं लगा कि मैं नैतिक खतरे में हूं या कुछ और। मैंने अभी-अभी ध्यान देना शुरू किया कि जब मैंने पोर्न देखा तो मेरे जीवन की गुणवत्ता और मनोदशा कैसे प्रभावित हुई। इसने मेरी ऊर्जा और ध्यान को समाप्त कर दिया। इसने मुझे वास्तविक दुनिया में अति-कामुक महिलाओं के लिए प्रेरित किया। इसने मेरी सोच को धूमिल कर दिया और मेरी कल्पना को निष्क्रिय कर दिया। पोर्न को किक करने के हजारों अच्छे कारण हैं, लेकिन उनमें से कुछ मेरे थे।

– जोश रेडनोर


Quotes need to understand :

1. The hardest thing is not doing what you want—it’s knowing what you want.

2. Be strong enough by your thoughts & take action.

3. There is only one real failure in life the processes you know well but do not implement your thoughts & actions on that processes.

4. Nothing in life is to be feared, it is only to be understood. Now is the time to understand more, so that we may fear less.

5. Human body is not sweet. Yup true! Thoughts and behaviour matter most so must be learn something about human physiology.

6. The things that tempt you, make you bad & greedy.

1. सबसे मुश्किल काम वह नहीं करना है जो आप चाहते हैं – यह जानना है कि आप क्या चाहते हैं।

2. अपने विचारों से काफी मजबूत बनें और कार्रवाई करें।

3. जीवन में केवल एक ही वास्तविक विफलता है, जिन प्रक्रियाओं को आप अच्छी तरह से जानते हैं, लेकिन उन प्रक्रियाओं पर अपने विचारों और कार्यों को लागू नहीं करते हैं।

4. जीवन में किसी चीज से डरने की नहीं, समझने की जरूरत है। अब और अधिक समझने का समय है, ताकि हम कम डर सकें।

5. मानव शरीर मीठा नहीं है। हाँ सच! विचार और व्यवहार सबसे ज्यादा मायने रखते हैं इसलिए मानव शरीर क्रिया विज्ञान के बारे में कुछ सीखना चाहिए।

6. जो चीजें आपको लुभाती हैं, वे आपको खराब और लालची बनाती हैं।


Weakness of attitude becomes

Weakness of characters

Weakness of characters becomes

Weakness of thoughts

Weakness of thoughts becomes

Weakness of attention

Weakness of attention becomes

Weakness of learning desire

Weakness of learning desire becomes

a senseless human being.


Conclusion: I’m not saying forcefully don’t watch porn or don’t have a desire for sex but in student life or growing period porn & sexual desire are negative things that are why here need to understand why don’t involve! Give value love and connection and friendship and community. Encourage more creativity, joy, and peace in life. Porn is opposed to all of that. I know it’s pleasuring but they’re cheap, brutal pleasures that fade fast and leave you worse off than before. Porn ultimately hurts the heart and confuses the mind. It gives nothing back.

Friends, if the mind is good, then our destiny is decided by Universe and if the mind is dirty, we decide our destiny.

निष्कर्ष: मैं यह नहीं कह रहा हूं कि जबरदस्ती पोर्न न देखें या सेक्स की इच्छा न हो, लेकिन छात्र जीवन या बढ़ती अवधि में पोर्न और यौन इच्छा नकारात्मक चीजें हैं, इसलिए यहां यह समझने की जरूरत है कि शामिल क्यों न हों! मूल्य प्यार और कनेक्शन और दोस्ती और समुदाय दें। जीवन में अधिक रचनात्मकता, आनंद और शांति को प्रोत्साहित करें। पोर्न इन सबका विरोध करता है। मुझे पता है कि यह आनंददायक है लेकिन वे सस्ते, क्रूर सुख हैं जो तेजी से फीके पड़ जाते हैं और आपको पहले से भी बदतर बना देते हैं। पोर्न अंततः दिल को चोट पहुँचाता है और दिमाग को भ्रमित करता है। यह कुछ भी वापस नहीं देता है।

दोस्तों अगर मन अच्छा है तो हमारा भाग्य ब्रह्मांड द्वारा तय किया जाता है और अगर मन गंदा है तो हम अपना भाग्य तय करते हैं।

                                                                                           Karm K. Sanju


Comparison among Ordinary, Extraordinary & Mad people

Comparison among Ordinary, Extraordinary & Mad people

Qualities Ordinary People Extraordinary People  Mad people
Approx % of ppl on earth   50%

 

 

 5% 45%
Wake up time After 6:00 IST Before 5:00 IST  ANYTIME
Sleep hrs 6+ hrs 4-5 hrs 8-10 hrs or No sleep for couple of days
Eat Everything that availabe for them Very selective & Salads are most common for them Everything
Working hrs 6-8 hrs 8-15 or 8-18 hrs No data available
PD works & Self observation Rare (lack of consistency) Daily (with consistency) None
Self control 20-25% 75-90% 0%
Life related Books reading habit Yes (25-50%) Yes (75-90%) Data not available
Newspaper reading for National & International news & updates habit May be or May not Yes Data not available
Creating/Writing self thoughts or quotes May be or May not Yes Data not available
Acadmic desire 70-99% Results 55-70% Results Data not available
Dresses’s choice Fancy & various varities Simple or Standard with single or multiple choices Various varities clothes like dancers
Sacrifice habit May be or May not Yes No
Care of self Yes NO (Care for their thoughts, habits & actions) Data not available
Friends Zone Many friends Very less or None Data not available
Social sites uses Yes Frequently in a day Yes Rare in a week/month Yes 12+ hrs available there
Debate habit Talk mostly Arguments Talk mostly facts in a good manner Talk mostly abusing langauge
How much time they think & act 30-50% think / 50-70% act 10% think / 90 act 99% think / 1% act or 0% act
Aim or work for Money, Successes,  Pleasures, Fame & Achievement Satisfaction, Innovation, Donation & Invention Greed

I’m proud on myself : Karm K. Sanju

I’m proud on myself : Karm K. Sanju

  1. I’m proud that I’m a Good human being.
  2. I’m proud that My thoughts are not restricted (spread up to worldwide).
  3. I’m proud that My father taught me the basic education of my life.
  4. I’m proud that I do not belong to a highly religious family.
  5. I’m proud that My Mother is a good-hearted person.
  6. I’m proud Amrita Aapa is in my life.
  7. I’m proud that I’ve studied at SIC for highschool.
  8. I’m proud that I’ve studied at UPC for PG.
  9. I’m proud that My visions about World traveling,  Students developments, Earth, Environment & living beings.
  10. I’m proud that I daily try do Running+Exercise.
  11. I’m proud that My beliefs are scientifical & philosophical.
  12. I’m proud that I’m a big fan of Mahesh Babu, Anudeep Dirushetty & Sanju Samson like people.
  13. I’m proud that I’m a passionate learner & researcher.
  14. I’m proud that I’ve few loyal friends.
  15. I’m proud that My name is Karm which means “believe in actions”.

                                                                                               Karm K. Sanju